10 golden must not do rules with children
Ten mustn't do to your child 1. Screaming Some say its worst than beating and leaves one with long-term mental and emotional scars. Remember, the Prophet ﷺ never raised his voice on a child, women, a friend or otherwise. 2. Blaming Blaming weakens relations, lowers self-esteem and prompts children to be on the defence, even when they haven’t done something wrong. Anas ibn Malik, then a 10 years old child said: “I served the Prophet ﷺ for nine years. He never said about anything I did, why I did that, or about anything I didn’t do, why didn’t you.” 3. Nonstop orders Orders and instructions, without without first convincing or persuading- turn the child into a robot and this is not healthy. When growing up, they blindly emulates and obey any authority, regardless of its values. 4. Threatening Threading is used because it’s a quick fix for resistance, but not a solution on the longer run. Any attitude driven by fear is hypocritical, and does not indicate real change. 5. Sarcasm Mak...